Hey T,

Thanks for checking on me, I posted on my thread and could really use some "men's" point of view on manly thinkings.

Well, in catching up on your situation, I am as confused as ever. You know we have discussed briefly this "attraction" thing before. I don't know if that is much of reason for maintaining a marriage but I know if that's one obstacle you don't face it's a plus. I really enjoy that time with my H and always have. But then, all my GF's have always thought I was weird or different and I never could understand why they didn't "feel like it".

Have you tried "refusing" that part with her. If so, what happened? If not, why not try the 180?

Blessings


M:47
M:18
D16, S19
1st S 1/08-5/08
Reconciled/May 7, 2008
Left again Nov 9, 2009
I Filed: Nov 17, 2009
Final: April 14, 2010
EX walked away from kids too