Thanks for checking on me, I posted on my thread and could really use some "men's" point of view on manly thinkings.
Well, in catching up on your situation, I am as confused as ever. You know we have discussed briefly this "attraction" thing before. I don't know if that is much of reason for maintaining a marriage but I know if that's one obstacle you don't face it's a plus. I really enjoy that time with my H and always have. But then, all my GF's have always thought I was weird or different and I never could understand why they didn't "feel like it".
Have you tried "refusing" that part with her. If so, what happened? If not, why not try the 180?
Blessings
M:47 M:18 D16, S19 1st S 1/08-5/08 Reconciled/May 7, 2008 Left again Nov 9, 2009 I Filed: Nov 17, 2009 Final: April 14, 2010 EX walked away from kids too