I have the same thought sometimes - but in a different way. In my case the OM is a fun guy who focuses on himself, has fun with his friends, drives a cool car, etc -- but COMPLETELY NEGLECTS HIS WIFE - no help at home with the kids, no housework, never home in the evenings, etc. I know his W and she is miserable...
Me 42, W 39, S8, S6, S2 M 11y, A & ILYBNILWY 11/08 Walking away from a bad situation.
