Dear ones,

I will be in NYC tomorrow. I would love to see B, but I don't want to push. I'm wondering if I have any other options, other than reaching out (and possibly pushing), or doing nothing (and leave him wondering WTF I did't call him)? The last time we spoke, he told me he wanted to meet when I was in NYC. My plans at that time were not firm. In my memory, when we got off the phone there was no clear "I'll call you" or "you'll call me" about seeing each other in NYC. Originally I was thinking about being there 4-5 days while he was there. Now I am thinking 2-3. I am a little weary of couch surfing. What are your thoughts?

Otherwise, I just had a really nice visit in Boston with two of my dearest friends, eating tibetan food, going to this awesome bar that served delicious mulled cider, and revisiting my favorite cafe and eating an enormous apple crisp! Not to mention trudging around in the snow, which is sort of novel after not being around it for a while. And I picked up my cello yesterday and it came out amazing, the cellofixitman is incredible. hooray!

LOVE,
T