WAW - Possible MLC I need help, WAWs advice IV

[dday101798]

Your constant reference to him as a POS and over all attitude says you allow him to get to you. He can't if he does and it shows, he has won.

It's only human nature to think unkindly of those who take things that 'belong' to us. But I must profess, that is probably the only ONE thing I DID NOT screw up through all this time, even when I didn't accept it, I never insulted him to her or anyone else, sure I refered to him as 'Shrek' a few times in light conversation, but never once did I let on to her how I felt abou ther being with whim, other that 'you're with him what do you want me to say, or why do you think I say/do the things I have?'

It also takes two to have an affair, just try and remember that.

I wouldn't cut her off any inusrance either, I know I was soooo tempted to do so many of times, but in hindsight am glad I didn't.