Hi All, {{{hugs}}}} how is everything going? My sitch seems to be getting worse. How are you holding up? As for your question "is it an affair if they are looking for someone new" Absolutely. Any "dating" while being married constitutes as an affair, no matter how they make it seem. If you are still legally married then yes and of course whoever it is your H is "trading down"
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09