He states the deployment has nothing to do with wanting a D but I think it plays a bigger factor than he realizes. States he doesn't want to have a W that is away for one year. His deployment also forced him to file for D earlier than he otherwise might have. He wanted to get the D done before leaving so he didn't have to deal with it in a year when he returned. But if he didn't deploy, we might have had more time & effort to work things out.
There are just so many factors with our situation. I understand why it seems easier to him to cut all ties now instead of persevere through the difficulties... But it's a M!!
Me:28, first M H: 33, second M Married: 08/08 Bomb: 10/08 H filed D and deployed: 12/08 Served: 04/09 I deploy: 07/09 Hearing date: 08/09
