Aha I get you Mikey, but don't think that at all. I just think she really likes me. I mean, I was so hammered the first time we met, I completely blanked and although I know she isn't overly impressed, she has just sort of been ok with it.
I don't see it as being an OM as such, maybe I'm being a bit out of line there, I don't know. My attitude to things has changed a great deal and I don't think it's anyone else's fault but the person who is 'cheating' if you call it that. Also, many times, the WAS is long gone and has been for a long time and D can take sooooooooo long, so how long do they wait to move on ? Is someone my W is seeing now an OM ? (as were not D yet).
I know you will probably all just think I'm justifying what I'm doing, but if she says their done and have been for a long time, I believe her. She has opened up to me and I do understand why things can move faster re her getting a D, she has to be careful. I'm taking things slowly, our meeting are generally a cuppa or a little drive, or a couple of drinks, nothing silly so it's sort of doing the dating thing which is nice. But if it's meant to be, it will happen, if not, it wont.
