Camo? Seriously? That's a new one on me. Have you thought about getting a karate belt rack for him? I got one for my son and he needs another one now. He's testing for his black belt so his is incredibly full. I got his from a guy on ebay that is in PA and makes them and burns their name into the top or whatever else you want. Really great!
On the Dan front......he is completely lost girlfriend! He has no clue how to have a R. He sounds just like my XH, I caught you so now I don't have to do anything to keep you. Then, he was the one that walked because he "just didn't feel the same way anymore". Yeah, whatever. Feelings ebb and flow but M is forever (at least for some of us).
I hope you can get some distance from him and his BS soon. Take care of yourself and the kids and let him spin in the wind babe.
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!