Thanks WP! Don't know if my dream will come true, but makes me feel good to have a sign of detaching like that.
H started my am by emailing me about stuff. Said he will let me know in the future if he is going to pick the kids up way early like he did Friday, and now I know how he feels like I didn't give him info about D9's gs meeting Saturday. I told him I had her call when we got the info they sent from Tallahassee (said it was a Cookie Rally 1 to 4 but no directions or location and said D9's gs leaders would email with the info, but they didn't. I didn't have any more info than he did. D9 said she'd rather spend the day with her dad anyway than the gs, so I said fine, b/c I could have called one of the other moms to find out, but that meant I didn't have to. I told H I would have emailed when we found out like I normally do, but had D9 call him b/c it was clear he wasn't reading my emails for the past 2 weeks (he had taken off work and can only read my emails at work he says). So I told him now that he's emailing again I will email him as I do.
He has this thing in his mind, or I think wants to use it against me in court prob. that I'm not keeping him informed of the kids activities which isn't true. I realize I think even if he isn't reading the emails, I need to just email him with the info so I can keep it as proof he's full of sh**. Karen