ThinkingitThru, how are your teens dealing with everything?

Mine are a 15 yr old boy HS freshman at home, 17 yr old girl freshman at college.

Altho I havent told them everything I haven't sugar-coated whats going on either. But they've heard my side only and there are 2 involved but their dad is not talking much to any of us.

My 15 yr old son is pissed at his dad, for not honoring his word in marriage and for making me sad. You know how 15 yr old anger is?! I dont have the emotional energy to placate him and his anger doesn't help a tenuous situation.

Any advice?

H 51/W 43
Together 24yrs/Married 19yrs
2 kids- D18 & S16
"I want out" July 2008
"I want out" Dec 2008
"I want you out" Aug 2009
Still in house thru it all