Actually, it is not relieving ANY financial burden from him as it is just enough for ME to get by right now. I am still building this up and it takes $$ to make $$ so it is not something right now that I can say will make the house payments, etc.
I do not believe he sees it this way at all.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19