Well DBers, the “Psych B*&ch from Hell” has returned. STBXW found out I was seeing gym woman from D18. Yesterday, I got a text from STBX “I have plans for today, and I don’t want D16 to be alone. Can you call her and make plans with her” D16, remember has anorexia.
S10 has been with me since December 23rd, and has not been home one day (nor has he asked to go home!). I responded to STBX “Sure”. I call D16 on both her cell phone and the home phone and she does not return my call. I figured “She’s 16 and has social plans”
I take S10 to his hockey game. Gym woman and her daughters asked to go to the game. Sure. I said. Why not? S10 already likes all of them and HE asked if they would go.
Well, 10 minutes into the game, who do you supposed shows up? That’s right STBX “Psycho B&^ch from Hell”. Mind you, it’s my “custodial period” with S10 and she has NEVER showed up at a hockey game when I had S10. When she had him, I called before I went to any games, even though she has no right to stop me. She proceeds to walk right past me, gym woman and her kids with no acknowledgement, and sits with other mothers.
At the end of the game, she came over and talked to gym woman for 10 minutes. She knew her 10 years ago, as I once said. She then chastised me about S10 “not wearing his mouth guard”. Gym woman’s D18 later told her mom that STBX talked to me “like I had a learning disability” STXB then disappears. Gym woman quietly told me "She's nuts".
I called D16 one more time to see if she would join me and S10 at gym woman’s house for dinner. No response. Remember, I took D16 to NYC with gym woman and her D16, who my D16 knows, and she had a great time. We just went to their house for dinner two nights ago as well.
I was at the house for 10 minutes, when my cell rings, and I see it is STBX. I do not answer. 2 minutes later, D16’s number comes up. I answer it and it is STBX psycho! She launches into a diatribe “I find it curious that you picked up the phone when you thought it was D16, but not me. Are you with D18? (I wouldn’t answer). Where are you (no answer again) She then stated “I find it curious that you would spend time with other people and not you’re own daughter” At that point, I heard D16 say “Mom this is your problem, not mine”
D16 later called me and left a message that she had other plans, and that STBX grabbed her phone to call me. She said she had no issues with me.
I hung up. DONE. STBX then texted me and said “Your daughter is hysterically crying. If you want me to have full custody, just say it.”
Ten minutes later I get “Way to be a good father”
I responded to neither. I also told her I am no longer interested in giving her 60% of my take home pay. We have no formal agreement on this, I was just an as& for giving her that much money for so long.
I called D16 and asked if she was crying, and she responded “Yes, because I don’t like to be between you and mom”. She assured me that she knew that once D18 went back to school, we could spend more time together.
Whaddya think Brothers and Sisters? I have my ideas.
