Frank,

Thank you for talking with me tonight.

Take care of you, my friend. Perhaps a list is not what you need. Perhaps doing ONE thing that is good for Frank is just what you need. Everyone has to 'pick their poison.' Pick yours. I am confident that 'your poison' is at the bottom of your list, but I am even more confident that by doing so, you will see the world differently, including Frank. Nurture yourself in a healthy way.

Good bye for now, buddy. I am with you.

Much love to you and yours,
Tom




Last edited by still hopeful; 01/05/09 10:25 AM.

Letting Go Tom; JUST DO IT!
previously hopeful_husband

my A: Fall 05
W found out: Feb 06; separated immediately
W pursued D, final 7/11/07

me: 43
XW: 34
D8
S3
joint legal/physical custody