Thanks everyone. I am back at work, but still in the dumper--not literally! LOL. OK TMI. I can't afford to be gone from work another day or else I will never dig out from under the mountain of labor.
Sort of had the blues the last couple of days. It is funny how I can do so well and then come back around and be down again. Just the usual stuff of loss and not being with our kids on a day to day basis. Overall though things could be worse. I had a quiet NYE and just stayed in and tried to heal. Watched a bunch of football.
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A man who compromises his principles never had them in the first place.
Good to see you're back at work. My W finally moved stuff out of the house last Wed. Going over to "inspect" her new place on Sunday night. She wants to keep the kids on an overnight next Fri.
{{{LE}}} I'm so glad you are back..you are really missed when you are gone!!!!! Hope you didn't have a TREMENDOUS amount of work to catch up on, but I have a feeling you did eh??
Hope your weekend is a good one and that you have something happen that will make you SMILE You deserve it!
Tawnya
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One thought that has been rippling across my mind the last two days. I talked to D on the phone night before last and she said "Daddy I just saw a shooting star!" I asked "Did you make a wish?" Of course she said, "That you and mommy would be married again." It's those sorts of things that make this hard to just let go and move forward.
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A man who compromises his principles never had them in the first place.
{{{{LE}}}}} yeah that is tough to hear and then try to think of another direction to go isn't it?? Are you able to get out and do some stuff where you can get your mind off it for a bit, besides your job I mean?
Tawnya
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hey my dear friend. how are you feeling? thought of you yesterday when i was in atwoods in pc, they had a couple adds up inside on the bulletin boards for houses for rent. you might check it out.
your daughter sounds so precious. LE you are a great dad and a great man. its gonna be ok, maybe not today, but someday soon.
love and hugs
M 36 XH 34 3 children If a house is divided against itself, that house will not be able to stand. Mark 3:25 "your mood swings are giving me whiplash" twilight ALIVE FREE AND HAPPY 2010
hey LE - I think all kids want the same thing. My S6 says similar things but I try to explain to him in the simplest form. We both just say that mummy and daddy don't love each other anymore and leave it at that which he gets. S2 seems to be pretty ok, but when he doesn't get his own way (terrible 2's which we never got with S6), he will cry and say he wants mummy. I asked what he does at home and S6 said he does the same but says he wants daddy, which my STBX confirmed.
I do think kids will cope and adapt, but I also believe in what Michelle says in the first chapter of the book. However, I (we) can only play what cards we are dealt and be the best people we can for our kids.
You deserve it!