Barnes and noble if you can't wait for them to be sent from the website. Or books a million. I couldn't wait. I had to read immediately. Take the advice of the books. Sounds like you are in a far better situation than the rest of us if you just handle it right. Man I will I was in your position. I was once, and I blew it. Don't blow it. Play it cool. Back off. Resist asking questions. Be there is she needs you, but don't be clingy. Act as if your life is fine. Do it now before it gets to where ours is. I wish I had read divorce remedy back when I was in your situation and followed it. I would be far better off now if I had.

Kevin

Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
Separated 03/09
D dismissed 06/09/09
Still separated...