Don't worry I am not there yet but WOW it could be over in only 1 hour.... I hope to update ya all soon.
I don't know anyone locally who took less than 6 months. In fact, most take over a year. They must be referring to people who get drunk in Vegas and then wake up the next morning to find themselves married to some stranger.
There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.
