toh, if you got a txt at 2am from your H that said he hates you what would that do for your feelings for him?

Your H is not ready to face the music.
Even if he was ready what tune would he hear from you?

Creed wrote a wonderful post for you. For all of us! Print it out and read and reread.

Glad you got corn to be warm!

Live your life while you are still living.
Riding the trail less traveled.