Could be guilt, maybe some MLC (you didn't mention your W's age but if she's in the 30s or 40s prob.), some dissatisfaction with your M? It sounds like you're doing a good job DBing. If it's MLC, I think it just takes a while for them to work through the process. If you post a bit more details/info, it's easier I think for people to post and offer their input and everything. Karen
