Moving her from Newbees

[Clayton]

Finally 2008 is over. What a crappy year that I want to forget asap. 2009 isn't going to be that much better. There will be plenty of upheavals coming down the pipeline.

I didn't realize at the start of this just how long this process is going to take and the emotional toll. I'm pretty much over DBing for any other purpose other then to keep me sane at this point.

W still hasn't filed the D papers. I don't think I can move on with my life until the D has been finalized....so I might need to push her along a bit. She did contact a lawyer who wanted a 5K retainer to get the ball rolling. I havn't contacted one yet.

I went out for a couple of drinks this evening with one of our old friends who was divorced from her H about 2yrs ago after she caught him cheating. She is still in limbo 2yrs later. I don't want to still be in this mindset a couple of yrs down the track.

My 2009 newyears resolutions are:
1) Give warm fuzzies to everyone I meet.
2) Be selfish and do whats good for me.