Ooh...I get this too. I don't know how to handle it without sounding like I'm saying "I don't care what you think, i'm going to do what I want to do". This would quite easily sound to h like "Don't stick your nose in to my business, If I want to meet other men for drinks and then shag them senseless I will"
*sigh*
Have to think on this more...right now I'm late for work.
** Purple
As soon as you trust yourself you will know how to live. Goethe