I sure would not. I started down the road to personal success when I stopped saying things like that or wearing my ring. By success I don't mean saving my marriage but my sense of self respect and my ability to a man that I am proud of and that my kids can look up to. I don't want to try to read to much into your circumstances so let me just say in a very generic way that you have to be there for yourself first before you are any good to anyone else. Take care of you. That is what the WAW is is doing.