Dear Lou123, I know exactly how you feel and i am getting very frustrated with the whole process. I to implemented the 180 on Thanksgiving and saw some progress.....He was spending more time in common areas of the house, we were spending more time together (no talk of feelings or emotions), he seemed more relaxed and was doing stuff (unasked) around the house, Had a great X-mas and spent New Years Eve together, Went out with friends last night and he informed once again of his plans for a divorce! Nothing has changed, he's miserable, wants out now before he wastes another 17 years of his life, etc......He claims to have given up the OW (I don't believe him, but why lie?) How do you know when it's time to let the R go and move on? I'm sorry.....I am not actually giving you help....I do want you to know that you are not alone in your confusion. Hang in there!
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M 7yrs T 17yrs Me 42 H 37 ilybnilwy 4/08 OW Discovery 1 week later S 5/08 Came home in 11/08 but still wants D
