Cinders, I have to agree that my H is a complete Narcissist. I see that in him much more than the MLC to be honest.

And, I also agree that another crisis does NOT make them 'wake up"...in truth I do not know if they ever will...knowledge is power, dear....and the more you learn about it...the more you know how a lot of this is not about YOU. And you also have to ask yourself: what if he never comes 'back'? What if his alter ego never reverts? Are you willing to be with the man he is TODAY?

Just a thought....

Valentine

Aug '06: H moved out
July '08: H had a kid with the OW
May 12 '09: emancipation day

"Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller