Cleaning out Clutter - ? For Men

[MsMelancoly]

Hi silverfox & kevin4dallas, Thanks for stopping by! Happy to hear some of my thoughts have helped others.

Yes, silverfox, Some men do need a lot of growing up. Does your H have a room full of toys?? Mine does, still at my house. Though my H is smart & collected toys that appreciate in value.

kevin4dallas, In my state I can just type the state name + public records (& then I looked up my H & myself). That's how I found out. When I did my heart dropped. A few days after finding out I sent him an email, not mean nor nice nor totally blaming him - basically thanking him & saying that we do not have what it takes for a good & loving M. This probably made him s**t his pants in fear. And I really thought he had his mind made up .... but still doesn't. So if you find out or not -get served or not- just play it cool.