Was that a speedbump or a milestone?

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Sleeper, I guess I am the one hanging on to the past in the marriage. When H claims he has changed, I want to say that he has proved unreliable too frequently. With that said, you've had time to build up some new history, so to speak, and prove you have been reliable.

I would suggest that you DO suggest having a counselor present. This could be opportunity to have a real conversation.

Maybe this would be a good step.