Still some feelings lingering.......

[addie]

She has no kids (which she regrets) and has never been married.

Ok..questions from me..did she elaborate why here?? career get in the way? She does not like kids? she never met Mr. Right and what are her views on kids now..if she has regrets does she want them?? want to have them..want to adopt them??

so John..I'm flashing back to Kim here..a woman that age with no kids who has regrets...red flag for me

John, I can see why Mike would feel this way and these things also stood out for me when I read your post. Being of Western European heritage myself, I know the importance placed on marriage and kids, especially for a woman. These are definitely questions worth exploring but maybe not on a first date.