Man oh man Pup. I'm right there with ya.

I'm sure my W felt unloved because I was away so much for work and when I was home I was working so much that I would be exhausted when I got home. But I was working to give her and the boys everything they want and deserve, ya know, providing for my family. It's the way I was brought up. My dad did the same thing. In my house, that was showing love. And it was normal for my W and I as my W grew up in a household where Grandpa, Step dad, Mom, Aunt all worked for our company, so the culture of what it takes to move up in our company was something she knew very well. Thing is, I think we lost each other in the race to get where we thought we wanted to be. I think we were so caught up in where we wanted to be, we forgot WHY we wanted to get there.

Ok, gotta run. Now the trick is to not let things slide again. Which I'll NEVER do if I get the chance.


Hope4us

Me - 49, W 49
S22 & S18
Dday 9/4/07
W claims NC 4/7/08
8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.