Piecing Friends, My W is clearly asking for what she wants. It's now up to me to figure-out how to meet those expectations. Telling her she looks attractive seems like an easy expectation to meet.
The housework issues, we'll simply work-out.
The money issues aren't resolvable, because she wants our finances to meet her expectations, rather than adjust her expectations to meet our finances. This is an ongoing conflict we have.
She has become a more attractive person since she started dancing four years ago. I told her last night that she oozed sensuality, where a lot of woman her age neglect that aspect of themselves.
I suppose I should be greatful for that.
I wish she weren't so reactive and harsh with her words. It would make this Piecing process easier. She tells me to call her on it, but it happens so frequently, I lose track of the various ways she's angry with me.
CL
CL 53 W 54 M 20 yrs. 03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL 10-14' Piecing
"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."
