He did not close on the house, I don't know if he is still trying to buy it without me or not. Haven't asked. He did just throw away a lot of stuff out of his truck before he left for Texas. He threw it in our outdoor garbage can. There were booklets on windows and cabinets, presumably for the new house. He also threw away the spec sheets/estimates for new windows and cabinets and the plans he drew himself for his new living quarters. Don't know if that means he is giving up on the idea of the house or not, but he did throw it all away...
He actually slept here on the couch the last 3 nights before he went to Texas. That is what I meant when I said I was weak and it was same old same old...
I have no idea what his plans are but I am just making plans for the kids and I at this point. If he wants included it is his job to work his way back in not mine to pull him in...