Ohhh I was sooo proud of you for letting it go...then...the TM....

But TOH, earlier someone said we just want you to succeed, we want you to see what we see, a wonderful person that deserves so much more!

Snodderly is brilliant, do not mention the TM or OW when you see him next. He is expecting you to say something and might be defensive.

You cannot control his actions, whether he sees OW every day or never sees her again.