Hahahaha...John, you starting to feel 14 again yet?
I like Woogs suggestion! Maybe you could add (IL40) after the name in your phone, for extra precautions. I like his precautions advice too. You dont want a REAL LJ running around the place.
Your thread is too funny...
(K, love you too! I have taken over from Lisa in the naughty dept. as she is MIA).
I am glad that this thread has become a distraction and or funny. I know for the longest time it was not funny at all. i guess I need to make the trip to the drug store to buy that raingear. I met AE45 (airline employee) last night for a couple of drinks. She is very personable and looks nice as well. I do not mean to harp on this but she is also of Italian heritage. the three hours really flew by. I walked her to her car and the old double cheek kiss and away we went. All in all a nice evening. I am interested in continuing....we will see what she thinks. She has no kids (which she regrets) and has never been married. Two older siblings which she is close to and both her parents have passed away. Actually her eyes were teary on several occasions when she spoke about her parents. i felt like reaching over and give her a hug but i did not. So nothing spectacular to report...moving slowly.
She has no kids (which she regrets) and has never been married.
Ok..questions from me..did she elaborate why here?? career get in the way? She does not like kids? she never met Mr. Right and what are her views on kids now..if she has regrets does she want them?? want to have them..want to adopt them??
so John..I'm flashing back to Kim here..a woman that age with no kids who has regrets...red flag for me
Hey Mike, wow you sure seem to have alot of red flags!!! Blocked number red flag....regrets red flag.... By the way she just mentionned one regret and she loves kids. She is 45 so no she does not want any children. She spoils her niece who is pregnant now, so she has a babay coming in her family. I did not want to elaborate on why she is where she is today and i surely do not want to judge anybody. Never been married or married twice or three times whatever, I try to give people the benefit of the doubt especially when everything else seems to be in order.
She has no kids (which she regrets) and has never been married.
Ok..questions from me..did she elaborate why here?? career get in the way? She does not like kids? she never met Mr. Right and what are her views on kids now..if she has regrets does she want them?? want to have them..want to adopt them??
so John..I'm flashing back to Kim here..a woman that age with no kids who has regrets...red flag for me
John, I can see why Mike would feel this way and these things also stood out for me when I read your post. Being of Western European heritage myself, I know the importance placed on marriage and kids, especially for a woman. These are definitely questions worth exploring but maybe not on a first date.
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She could be just a woman that focused on her career. My pre marriage girlfriend (and her sisters) were like that - she wanted kids, but there was always some new job causing her to move away.
