Good morning. Well, Puppy's news gives me renewed hope.

And of course, after my comment about W leaving the purse I got her for her birthday in November in the closet I come home from dropping S20 off at school and what's she doing? Yep, transferring the stuff from her old purse to the new one. Maybe she's a mind reader and knew what I posted?

Anyway, had a nice day yesterday. Was pretty detached from W in the morning. Kind of playing it like was suggested by the ladies. I was polite, brought her a Latte when I came home from my hair cut. She really likes "Seattle's Best" coffee and doesn't really care for Starbucks. So Friday night when I said something about a haircut yesterday morning, W asked if my haircut was near "the strip" where the Borders is with the Seattle's Best cafe in it. I told her "not really", but there was a Starbucks in the same strip mall, and if she wanted one of those, I'd bring one home. She said "I don't like Starbucks" so I just said "ok".

So when I walked in with the Seattle's Best she said "you went to the strip"? I said "yes". She replied "Starbucks would have been ok" to which I said "You said you didn't like Starbucks". She said "I said it would have been ok". And I just said "oh". A minute or so later she quietly said "thank you".

So the rest of the morning I was pretty detached. Did my own thing. Left to take S20 back to school around 1:00. While in the car I thought to myself "I wonder how long it will be before W TM's me"? She didn't disappoint. Took about an hour and a half. So I was polite in the TM exchanges. Got S20 to school and went to Chipotle for dinner. W TM's me while I'm there asking directions to one of S16's friends house. Now she knows the way. They've been there before and they have a google map so I'm not sure why she had to TM to ask, but I didn't want to get into trying to TM directions, so I called her. And it was like she didn't want to get off the phone with me. Finally I had to say "my food is getting cold" and ended the call.

So when I get home she's fixing up her new purse and has a glass of wine for herself. And when I sat down she started talking and talking.

And it was like that the whole evening. Just a really nice night of conversation and watching football. W made a couple comments about when our new bed would be showing up. Almost sounded like she wants to sleep in bed with me.

Ok, I've rambled enough. Thanks for listening.


Hope4us

Me - 49, W 49
S22 & S18
Dday 9/4/07
W claims NC 4/7/08
8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.