I know I can't speak for everyone here, but I think that's what most of us want. A chance to do everything we can to recover our marriage. If it doesn't work then, ok, but at least you try EVERYTHING before throwing in the towel.
This is me ---->
Hope4us
Me - 49, W 49 S22 & S18 Dday 9/4/07 W claims NC 4/7/08 8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.