Hi fb2,

That should have read somthing like socialize more with men and women, cos if I look to my circle of friends it's really shrunk and on the female side its just female relatives. So I'm just looking to make more friends including females but there will be no cheating. I mentioned the no cheating before any responded and said be careful etc etc.

OK I managed to get it out of W that she angry cos I was speaking to BIL and SIL without her knowledge, she also threw in a couple of things to make it seem more sinister (not true)but that is always her way. I told her it's the fourth day of 2009, say your piece get rid of the anger and we move on, but shes still ignoring me so I'm just gonna get on with doing my things and keep happy.

Oh last thing W wants to go to MIL & FIL for dinner I gonna tell her I am happy to go if we have resolved our differences if not then I've got jobs to do around the house, I'm not going to sit making happy small talk then W ignore me again when we leave.

Happy days eh

Lan