Hi MsM,

Haven't posted to you in awhile and I'm catching up with your sitch.

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How Ironic though. He wants & needs my help to D me - but yet - did not want nor showed any need to work on our M with me. So now we are supposed to work as a team to do this D - when we could not work as a team for our M!! LOL

This really jumped out at me. It pretty much says it all. In fact, I may just tell my H this when he starts pursuing the D again, which should be any day now that the holidays are over.

Growing up for some of these men is tough isn't it?

Hang in there.


Last edited by Silver Fox; 01/04/09 05:10 AM.

Me 56
H 47
Married 21 years
No children
Bomb & moved out 4/07 "My feelings have changed" & "I want to live by myself".
Ow Bomb 8/07
H filed 6/08
D final 2/05/10