Got home from the gym today and H had taken down and put away all of the XMAS decorations. What a relief.
Today was a good day. Not a lot of contact, but what we've had has been pleasant.
I made a decision yesterday to stop trying to figure him out. There is no way that is possible. I can sit with my C all day long and try to figure out his motives and possible future actions based on them, but it would really all be guessing. I decided the only thing I can control is the decisions I make for me. Doesn't sound like a lot when I say it, but it feels like a big decision.
Married - 19 years Noticed Problem - Aug 2008 THE Conversation - Oct 2008
The opposite of love is not hate, it's indifference.
