Sleeper and deb already covered it frank, but I will add my reasoning here as well since you are confused.
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I don't know what would make you say it's guilt. I think she just feels 'uncomfortable' because I've been telling her I don't want her around, she can't come by for 'visits' with the girls but has to find her own arrangements out of the house.
No dude, just as you have to be comfortable in your own skin, so does she. You simply saying you don't want her around shouldn't mean crap to her. In fact, since when has she given a shitt about how you feel or what you want? The guilt part is that it's not her house Frank, she doesnt live there. If Carrie asked to come to my place to go through my photos, I would tell her no. I would ask what photos she is looking for and if it something I am ok with her having I would box them up and give them to her. Her guilt is that she knows what the reality is Frank. She shouldnt be even asking you for this stuff. She is testing you, pushing your buttons.
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see, I have to explain that she has her own domain which I provide the hosting for her and you need Outlook or some other mail reader to read it. Tonight I'm going to move it to another service that has a web based reader.
I knew this a month ago, you told me so. My point is why haven't you switched it already? Don't give her excuses to just show up at your place. Eliminate, eliminate, eliminate.
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What is the game? I guess I don't get it.
At this point in time Frank, I think the question needs to be what does she do that is not a game or simply designed to get a reaction. The game is take advantage of a good hearted man, the game is do what I want even if it hurts others, and the game is I don't deserve him to be nice to me but I am gonna make him be nice.
She takes advantage of your good nature, she takes advantage of opportunities to make you feel like the bad guy ("you said you don't like me being around"), and she takes advantage of your children as an excuse to enter your home. It's all manipulation Frank, and very easy to see from this side of the fence......
