M, I could be totally wrong about him, but I do think he's at the bottom of the barrel and now needs to find a way to rise to the top again. How long will it take him to decide that the bottom isn't where he wants to be....now that's the million dollar question.
I'm hoping that w/the money situation and the car acting up, he'll start moving a bit towards seeking assistance either from a doctor or his father....he really is out of options, if you think about it.
I'm going to keep you and your family in my prayers this evening. Hopefully the good man upstairs will tuck them away for the right time to assist your h.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.