Play upon his sympathies and trigger his guilt to see how much I can manipulate him so I can keep as many benefits as possible while I excersise my freedom to do whatever I want.
If memory serves, your W has a history of freedom excursions with benefits.
Mine actually said;
"D shouldn't change the way we parent." (I want you to continue caring for C most of the time so I can party)
"I still want us to be there for each other." (I want you to be there for me when I want you to be)
"We will always be a family." (I want to have a party lifestyle and "family" experiences when I want them)
"Why can't we use one (hers) lawyer?" (I want the D to cost me as little as possible and expect you to give me everything I want)
Sorry for butting in.
Last edited by sleeper; 01/04/0912:58 AM.
"Fear is the mind-killer" Muad'Dib Me 53, XW 44, DD 14, DS 12 Bomb and OM 12/15/06 Separated 01/02/07 Divorced 05/13/08 X married OM(OMH) 08/2009 Married 06/09/13
