I've been off line with computer problems. thats why I've been so quiet.

Well we seemed to have come full circle, 4 days in to the new year and W still angry with me and she not talking, just like the old bad old days it seems. Anyway tonight she went up to bed early playing on her DS, I told her we need to talk tomorrow when shes not so pre occupied but she just blanked me.

Not sure what to say tomorrow but I'm not looking for any in depth R talk cos if there is an "issue" it will come out on its own. I'm just going to point out its a New Year and look where we are. Also that shes not doing much to help prevent these fall outs. Don't think I can say much more.

Anyway I've started setting myself some goals for 2009, I'll list a few in no particular order.

-Hook up with some old friends I've not seen for years(I txted some at new years) I've got 5 so far on my list.

-Do my 10k run for charity (must do it in under an hour).

-Get a Sat Nav at minimal cost (This is a Tecky challenge,I'll explain later for anyone who is interested).

-Find a real hobbie, W says I'm boring so there a challenge for me.

-Find some Man time away from W and D7,I've already got some ideas, and it will include interacting with members of the opposite sex. ( no cheating though).

-Teach D7 to swim (we already go on Sundays)also teach her to ride a bike.

I've got a few more I'm thinking about but the good thing is they'll stop me thinking about W and whats going on in her world.

Lan