Ya, boy did she give me some incite!! One of the pieces of advice she gave me was that I shouldn't go dark and to match her contact. She said that "you wouldn't get mad at your wife if she couldn't walk because of MS so treat the ADHD the same. It's not her personality, thats just the way she is wired." It certainly caused me to reflect on how I responded to her and my part in her not getting what she needed. I only hope now that armed with this info I can continue the journey back to affection and romance.
I am also going to read everything I can about the subject!
Cheers, Jeff
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June 08 I don't want to be married it's not you it's me