Hi all, Frank welcome, Tomato (dont worry about coming by often),
H and I had a talk today. Another one. A few things were said. We decided we will set a deadline, a couple of months until when we should be able to say if we both see any progress or not.
Clearly we have a lot of issues that our understanding is different. Today he started on "your responsibilities with the kids are not that much considering you work till late everyday and spent a few hours with them...". I was speecheless. It is part of an issue I have identified :he never in the past recognised my efforts to keep this family together and "running" while he was ...busy working. I told him so. I told him he should be thanking me instead of judging me. Especially since he couldnt take care of the kids if he had to.
We managed to keep it civil. He later said he wants to come and sleep over tonight. He said he wanted to last night also but I "was out" (had a great time with my GFs). He also said I was right for being upset because he chose to leave Christmas and New Year's nights. He said he made a wrong choice...
I feel better we have a plan regarding time. He agreed we cant be doing this forever with no results/progress. Take care all, xxx K
