Any suggestions on how to deal with feeling hopeful & helpless at the same time?
It's difficult having my H be so adamant about the D. He seems completely closed minded.
I continue to hope our marriage will turn around but his reactions make it difficult... and leaves me vulnerable to getting hurt. I guess the risk of continuing to be hurt is involved when trying to save a marriage. Our M working out is well worth the risk
Me:28, first M H: 33, second M Married: 08/08 Bomb: 10/08 H filed D and deployed: 12/08 Served: 04/09 I deploy: 07/09 Hearing date: 08/09
