SC - you rock! Just enjoy that attention, you deserve it... and please, consider adding as one of your 180s the mental and emotional shift of accepting and living the reality that you are an attractive, desireable woman. That can be part of your self-growth that will help any relationship including your m if you recon.
And I agree, don't tell the h.... he'll notice your new glow anyway and that will only make you more mysterious and attractive. You don't need him to be your cheerleader in this (yuck!) 'cause you got it goin' on all by yourself. Cheer yourself on! I'm cheering for you! Too often our h's leave us feeling undesireable, without passion and attractiveness .... particularly if there's an ow. I am starting to firmly believe that is something we must reclaim for ourselves. I've added it to my list.
