Thanks Snodderly. I think you are right about the no expectations. I really didn't have any this time around. I also put NO pressure on him when he didn't show, like call and say where are you etc.

I just left him be this time. I have my life to live too and it's not focused around h. I am trying here. I do slip up though when he seems to be drawing closer and closer.


Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"