Thanks Snodderly. I think you are right about the no expectations. I really didn't have any this time around. I also put NO pressure on him when he didn't show, like call and say where are you etc.
I just left him be this time. I have my life to live too and it's not focused around h. I am trying here. I do slip up though when he seems to be drawing closer and closer.
Me 50 H 42 S 22 S 9 D 7 M 12 T 17 H moved out 8/2006 H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks H moved home 5/2011 for good
"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"