Glam, The holidays are over and he feels better about coming around and he doesn't have to play the happy camper now. His depression appears to have lifted just a little bit. I find it interesting that he changes clothes when he's at your house and then changes back when he leaves. Your home is a safe haven for him when the expectations are at zero.
I'm glad he liked the changes you've made in your home. That's a good sign that he noticed. Keep up the good work Glam!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
