Hi Mel, There's a big difference between you and my W; she only lived in our home for less than a month before moving out and she has hardly lifted a finger in it since. I've done the projects around here. I don't think she says things about "our home" because she feels like this is her home--she doesn't even want to live in it--I think she says those things to dangle carrots in front of me. That's why I didn't respond. I still haven't decided what to do, but whatever I do won't be for her, it will be for the attainment of one of my goals, sanity for myself or a chance to repair our M, or both. I feel that God can fix things whether or not she lives here, so I am leaning in that direction for now. I hope I can figure it out soon enough. WP
