Hi guys,

it's been a long time since I've been on this site. I'm hopeful for a really great 2009...lots of new things in my life.

Tell me that others have had to lose their homes from divorce and that it's not the worst thing to happen. I'm so morally against defaulting on a commitment (including my marriage - but one can't stay married alone!) and i've struggled so long to keep everything afloat.

People bounce back from this right? Thanks guys....