M, Glad to hear that your computer is okay. I wonder why they didn't attempt to clean up the mess? It would have been better had they done that...rather than you discovering it.
I'm glad your father called. It's nice to know that he's there to assist if you need him. I don't blame you....your son will need to cough up some $$$ to assist in the repairs since he's been the one putting most of the miles on it. I'm sure he's not been driving it the way you or your h would have either.
M, to be honest w/you, your h is very depressed and I don't think he's even ready to move out on a job right now. It's an effort to get up in the morning and to even think for him right now. He needs to be seeing a doctor about the depression, but he's got to be the one to do that. I wish I could be more positive about him right now, but that dark depression has him.
You sound great and excited about your new venture. I'm sure it will be a huge success.
Enjoy your day!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.