Yes it falls under the category of "pressure" and will probably make her irritated/guilty/withdraw more.. which is counter productive to what you are trying to do here.. to make her feel safe and comfortable to approach you. Dont do it!
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread